Flirt with her subtly. This can be a good, indirect way to gauge if she's seeing anyone. Try playfully teasing her, complimenting her, or bringing up any inside jokes that you may have. If she reciprocates by teasing you back, blushes and smiles at your flattery, or laughs along with you, she may be single. She's likely in a relationship or not interested if her response is merely polite and guarded. She may even tell you that she's seeing someone. Try not to overdo it. If you think she may be in a relationship, don't try your most over-the-top pickup line. Try subtle compliments, like, "You look really nice today" or "I missed seeing you in class the other day."
Check if she's wearing a wedding ring. This is a quick giveaway to find out if she's in a relationship. If you're old enough to get married, take a subtle look at her left ring finger next time you talk to each other. A ring is a pretty foolproof indication that she's in a relationship and, most likely, will be for a very long time. If she's not wearing a ring, that doesn't necessarily mean that she's single or even unmarried. Some people just choose not to wear wedding rings.
Talk to her friends. This is a great option if you have mutual friends. Next time you're talking to friends of the girl that you like, casually ask if she is seeing anyone. If you're not comfortable, you don't have to mention why you want to know. Tell them that you're just curious. Try something like, "I noticed Claire didn't go to the party with anyone last week. Is she seeing someone right now? "Be aware that they'll probably tell her that you asked. If she's single, that may even help your chances.
Ask her directly. This may be the quickest way to find out. If you're feeling bold, go ahead and ask her if she's seeing someone. Though it may be a nerve-wracking question to ask, try to relax. She'll more than likely appreciate your direct approach (as long as you ask her respectfully), and you'll know for sure as soon as she answers. Try something simple and to the point, like, "Are you seeing someone right now?" or "Are you dating anyone at the moment?" If she is in a relationship, don't say anything negative or make her feel bad about that. Just be polite and change the subject to something else, like your plans for the weekend or a mutual interest of yours.Know when you shouldn't ask this question. Don't ask a coworker about their relationship status during work, for example. Wait for her to tell you or use a more subtle approach to avoid putting her on the spot or making her uncomfortable.
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